1 Year of Locs.

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I have been bad at recording my Loc journey. For half of the journey I was second guessing, going back and forth and worrying if I should remove it or not. There were negative comments, uncertain gazes and also very pleasant compliments. I had wanted locs from my teenage years and was forever afraid. There were stories of airport security checking your locs, searching you for drugs. There was the constant reminder that I would never get a good job. I have no idea of how many of those things are true. All I know as I type this is that this is one thing I have always wanted to do and I have done.It is something I want to see the results of no matter how many times I think of cutting them and going back to what everyone considers to be normal.

I went against parents, and some close friends. I understand them. Life is hard when you go against the grain in any way.  I always quit on many things but even just a year of Locs has made me feel that so much more is possible if I stick to all those things I say I would do or want to do. There is so much more out there that I am too afraid to conquer including showing my mother that I have locs (no she doesn’t even know as yet)  Fears are real. 2016 was waist deep full of fears and there is much more ahead. If defeating just one can make you this strong imagine how it would feel to conquer the majority of them.

I have experimented with both palm rolling and interlocking. I have tried oils , creamy conditioners and most recently, black hair dye. I have never had locs before and I am taking care of it myself. Sure, I do not know what I am doing the majority of the time but this has been such a great learning experience. Holistically challenging. Some may only understand after experiencing it. With locs you are changing so much. What the world would accept as beautiful, you are challenging it. What you have grown up believing is beautiful is also challenged. You may drown in the negative opinions that everyone else will dip you under or you can rise against it and think of you and what you want. It is difficult. Especially growing up with chains of expectations that friends and family have set for you.

I cannot say do not give up on your journey. I do not know if I may give up on mine soon. However, if you are thinking of starting locs, I will tell you to try it out and try it just a little bit longer. That is the only way you will ever know isn’t it. If you do decide to try something else. So what. it’s your hair and your moment to experiment.

Whatever you choose…….

     Be Blissful


Mid-Year Review and Thoughts

I am nervous I must admit. The middle of the year has already caught up to me. I started as most do with the fresh bang and energy needed to hit goals and such. I have yet to accomplish many goals but already I Do feel a change in the me earlier this year.

I went back to look at my earlier posts and I definitely like going back a bit once in a while

First Post

Second Post

Third Post

What I love most about these posts in particular is how I was undoubtedly talking to myself. I had no views or followers and it was my diary. I remember being surprised that I was able to write so many words without thinking too hard about word count like we used to do back in school when given an essay to write.

Certain things I really wanted to and still want to accomplish this year includes

  1. writing a novel or story of some kind
  2. Progressing in yoga
  3. Studying and hopefully becoming proficient in french and Spanish
  4. Learning to live life for me and not others
  5. Finding my voice
  6. Developing my writing skill and my drawing skill.
  7. Create YouTube videos and learn Video editing: YT Channel HERE

I have definitely been consistent in writing thanks to the blog,Yoga and drawing. I have become very passionate about yoga not really for the meditation aspect but instead the feeling of being able to touch your toes after years of thinking you couldn’t.Making videos have proven to be more difficult than I initially thought but I hope to get back into it more

Not every year feels different from the last, but i feel for sure that this year already feels majorly different,

  1. I was not an aunt last year and now I have a niece
  2. I did not have locs last year and now I am 6 months into my journey
  3. I was comfortable last year and this year I feel like I have done more things that might be uncomfortable to help get me moving
  4. I did not have such a boyfriend who my family immediately loved.💑
  5. I never thought I would ever work part time at a restaurant.



It might be slow but progress will always happen and I do believe that depending on me will change how fast or slow I see results. I hope that I will be able to achieve the goals that I have start for the year and I f God spares then I still have time left to make those changes.

Time management has become a challenge but I feel like I get more done now than I did when I had a bunch of free time.

I wont give Up on trying to achieve these goals. I feel like certain ones have to be done or else I will go crazy. I know I have gotten stronger both physically and mentally.💪🏾

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Have you accomplished any of your resolutions yet?Is the process going well? Have you already forgotten your resolutions?

Lets live and let’s flourish. Striving to end stagnant living!



Weekend Strolls

Sometimes just getting some sunshine can make an average Sunday something worth remembering. We took a stroll in the neighborhood and decided to take a closer look at this ancient  piece that we have been passing by for years! Sometimes I feel like I’m just now starting to appreciate things and look at the world with fresh and curious eyes.


1 year and 9months

His locs are 1 year and 9 months old!


Walking can really work up an appetite . I was glad to come home to this.Made by this blogger

I love when an average day can end in a way you did not expect. You come back with  a youthful glow already thinking of ways to make your days more interesting.

Hope you all had great weekends, whether you spent it at church or on an outing or just at home with family.

Whatever it may be…Be Blissful.

Starter Locs: 5 months Update

My hair ,to me, is finally starting to actually look like locs. I got a question yesterday, a guy in my class asked ,what would possess me to do such a thing? I didn’t like the way he phrased the question, it already suggested his opinion behind the question. At that moment someone interrupted us sparing me the chance of responding. Sometimes I forget the reason why I started.Having starter locs has made me almost forget about my hair at some instances having so many other changes happening in my life. Sometimes I simply remember always wanting to have locs and then I also remember the fear of growing old and wishing that I had at least tried it. My biggest fear of growing up is regretting not doing those things I wanted to do. Even at 20 I can see those opportunities I missed during my teens, living in my shell comforted by my fears. My parents hate locs and many of my friends don’t even like it. The idea really is living for God and making choices for Me. Having Locs would not change one aspect of the life of some else. One Goal of my twenties is to worry less of what others think of me and focus on developing myself and becoming who I hope to be.

I never expected to reach this far in the journey. I had started Locs almost twice before and always got shunned down by negative opinions of friends and family. This time I didn’t even mention I was starting. I added some twists and simply left them in. I didn’t even tell myself that  this would be my Loc journey. No matter what happens whether I stop or continue or change up the style, I am happy and refreshed that this makes me feel like I am living life not for my mom , dad or friends, but me.